Marriage Advice On Things No One Told Me - 7 Things You Should Know 

The first thing you have to do when your wife falls out of love is try and be understanding. Getting upset with her will only serve to make her feel more distant from you. Right now you have to recognize that it took a great deal of courage for her to share what she's feeling with you. She could have kept silent but instead chose to tell you that she felt there was a problem. Be as compassionate as you can be when this is going on. She really needs that from you and you need it as well if you want to keep your relationship from falling apart in front of your eyes.

Women are very emotional and sometimes those emotions get a bit confused. She may be mistaking a lost connection for feelings of falling out of love. If you two haven't spent any quality time together as of late and the only discussions you're having are centered around the children, that's going to contribute to the dynamic between you and her. You have to spend one-on-one time with each other if you want to reconnect with her. As silly as it may sound, date her again. Make her feel like there's nothing more important in the world to you than spending time with her. She needs to feel that.

Listen more to what your wife wants to share. As uncomfortable and difficult as it is to talk about feelings and how they've changed, it's crucial to the future of your marriage. Unless you can clearly understand what she's experiencing and what she's not getting from the relationship, you can't remedy the problem. Be her sounding board and make it clear to her that you'll listen to her with an open heart and mind. When she truly feels this is the case she'll see that she can open up to you again and that will definitely help to draw her closer to you.